This week wasn't too crazy though. I know i miss led you in the subject line. I'm a stinker! This week was full of just finding less actives and part member families. Which i was actually super excited about. We were given a list of families by the ward council, of people we should focus on. We tried our best and tried to visit most of them. And overall it was a success! We ran into a sister who sat and talked to us on her porch for a while. She opened the door and said "Oh! We'll I haven't seen missionaries in a while" we the chatted for a bit, but then the conversation took an extremely strange turn. We were talking about how her parents had passed a way a few years ago. We offered our condolences, but she said that it's ok, that she she sees them every once and a while.......... this caught us off guard, so we asked how so...... she then explained to us for the next hour about how she can see dead people...... I'm not joking, this is freaking straight out of a horror film OK??? I was mildly terrified hahaha and I also was trying so hard to keep back laughter, only because she said that she had a dog that died 2 years ago, but his spirit is always with her and that it, and I quote, "fights off the evil spirits that are constantly trying to invade my home"............... OK I kinda maybe not really understand seeing people. But dogs........ I draw the line hahaha.
I learned an a really cool lesson while talking with an investigator named Debbie, she is a cool lady, about 60 years old, she has had a pretty hard life, she was a Baptist but only went for a few months after she was baptized in. We met her when we were walking down the street to go see a less active member. We looked on our map, and noticed there was a potential investigator that lived on the same street. A potential investigator is either they were a referral or missionaries had talked to them in the past but stopped going for one reason or another. Well we went to the house where it was located at and found a woman sitting on the porch smoking, we went up and said hello. She saw us and said hello back, we started tell her who we were. She actually knew who we were she had talked to them in the past. Well one thing led to another and we started to have a lovely conversation about life, getting the know one another, 30 mins past and we didn't really get into religion at all. This kinda had me uneasy, but I kept getting the feeling I just need to get to know her and not to push religion. So I did just that. My companion on the other hand, did not think this was a good idea, he kept trying to bring it up, and it was actually starting to, I don't want to say upset her, but she just wasn't having it ya know? She made the comment of "do you guys talked about anything else but religion" this threw my companion for a loop haha. He went dead silence, I quickly replied "well that's what we usually focus on but we are okay to have normal conversations too." She asked "like what" I said "well just the other day we were talking to someone about cars, I also love to talk about family history" her face lit up and she said that she loved learning about her ancestors. So we sat and swapped family stories for a bit. And again I didn't feel like we should bring up religion quite yet. So we talked about the family history app. And how she can create an account, we'll we tried to create an account for her but we were having technical difficulties, but while my companion was trying to figure out what was wrong, me and her got on the topic of families, told how family is such a big part of my life, she said she agreed, she then told me about some family member who had passed away, and then she asked the question that I was waiting for. "So, what do y'all think will happen after we die" YES!!!! PERFECT! I COULD GO SOMEWHERE WITH THIS!!!!! But I felt like I should just explain the spirit world to her then asked her what she believed. I did so and the conversation was awesome. We swapped what we both believed, and she actually believed things that were relatively close with what we do. Time was running short so we had to head out. Before we left i gave her a plan of salvation pamphlet and told her she should look over this. She said she would and then we set up another time we could come over.
Well we went over again and the conversation was a different topic but I just kept getting the feeling to just listen to her. And towards the end of the time we had with her, she asked us, "what do you guys got for me this week" we talked about the book of Mormon and gave her one and asked her to read the introduction page. She asked us where it came from and I asked her if she knew or heard of Joseph Smith. She didn't but seemed pretty interested. We told her we would tell her about it next time. Well a week past and we went back over, had a long conversation about life and just a tid bit of religion, we talked about the restoration, and she was pretty interested. We set up another time to met and we went back to the apartment to grab lunch. Well a couple of days later, we were in a meeting and we got a text from her that said, "thank you so much for coming over and talking with me, you bring so much happiness into my life and I look forward to our visits"
Listening is so Important. Not only listening to the Holy Ghost and it's promptings but listen to others. Sometimes people just need a friend to talk to. Next time a friend or a loved one is having a rough time, just sit down and listen. If you live worthy to have the holy ghost as a constant companion, it will guide you on what to say that will truly impact and help them.
That was the only big thing this week was that little Text from Debbie, the only other one I can think of now is we were at dinner with a member and she invited over a friend who wasn't a member. She seemed pretty uneasy to be eating dinner with us. So I tried to make it as casual and comfortable as possible. She had a bunch of cool looking tattoos that were all music themed. I asked her of there was a story behind any of them, she said now but she just really loves music. Well for those who know me that started a very long conversation about all kinds of music. Found out we have a very similar music taste. And that her name is Gina she is about 32 years old and doesn't really have a religious back round, but really wants to learn more. We quickly set up an appointment and that was that. She said she was looking forward and was excited to have us come over. I'm way excited for that one:)
Guys, I know Christ lived. I know he came down to earth so that we would able to return to our heavenly Father, that we may be able to become clean from our sins. I know that he knows each and everyone of us, he knows how we feel, what we like, what we dislike, things we desire after, and things we are terrified of. He can give us strength even when we can't go on anymore. The atonement is one of the greatest gifts God gave us. It doesn't matter how many times we screw up, he will always be there anxiously waiting to help you. I know we have a modern day prophet on the earth. He is here to guide us. He is here to show us the way. I know that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God. I know the book of Mormon is true. I know that he saw Heavenly Father and his son Jesus Christ. I know I'm out here to find that one person I'm supposed to help. I also know that im out here to become a better man. I know that I'm on the Lords errand. Guys I love you and miss you all. I think about all of y'all everyday!! I hope your week was fantastic and full of happiness and excitement!!
Love y'all lots!!
-Elder Riley Field










